Sejodoh sepantas---

Bismillah.. 

This CNY, orang Cina beraya yg kita Melayu pakat-pakat kenduri kendara. Minggu ni ramai yg cop tarikh kawen nampaknya. Oh aku pun ada jugak la pegi kenduri tapi tak kenal sape. Kawan-kawan rapat/sekeliling belum ada yg 'sampai seru' lagi so tak berapa eksaited nak ke kenduri. Erk. 

Teringat pulak kenduri yg aku pegi dalam bulan lepas. Kenduri senior skolah mami. Anaknya kawen katanya. Both doctors.
Oh yer. *flashback* Kakak ni aku penah jumpa dia on November haritu. Time tu katanya baru habis study, so houseman dekat spital. Baru minggu first tak silap..

Then masa makan tu, aku pun meluahkan wondering ku kepada mami..

Miss S : Bu, ni kakak yg kita jumpa haritu kan? Yg baru dapat spital blablabla tu kan?

Mami   : Haah yela kot. *sambil tengok nama pengantin* Ha yelah.. Hakimah yer..

Miss S : Erm bu. Masa tu dia dah ada ke?

Mami   : Taktau la pulak. Tapi masa tu dia baru keja.. xdek lagi kot..

Aku mula bepikir. Ahha ni tebiat aku kalau pi kenduri kawen. Sibuk pikir 'cane deme jumpa?' 'cane deme decide nak kawen?' 'pesetujuan family? halangan? tempoh?' 'Berapa bajet deme save agaknya ni..' Ha.. dah macam takdek keja gamaknya =.= 

Tetiba kawan mami yg si mak pengantin ni pun datang nak entertain lah kitorg yg datang lambat ni.. Katerer dah siap kemas baru kitorg sampai. Hakhak. Maka si mak pengantin yg sangat mesra ni mula la becerita pejalanan 'cinta' si pengantin. Aku tekun mendengar. Taknak miss cerita :p

Gugel je..

Anty R  : Haahh.. *sambil tarik kusi duduk depan kitorg* I kan, 4 bulan ni straight tak rehat. This guy, merisik si Hakimah ni bulan November, minang bulan Disember and ni Januari terus nikah. So short. I semput jugak la..

Mami  : Ohh yeke.. cane kenal bedua ni? Sama tempat blaja ke?
Anty R : Eh tak.. this guy study Indonesia. Dorg jumpa kat tempat kerja. This guy jatuh hati masa mula-mula Hakimah datang spital tu, masa jadi houseman tu.. Dah bekenan tu terus dia merisik then minang.. 3 bulan jelah deme ni.

Mami   : Oo yeke.. nak jadi jodoh kan..

Anty R : Tu lah. I tengok dia pun oke. Ha ni *sambil tunjuk ada sorang laki tengah solat* my future son in-law jugak. Si jasbxk (tak ingat nama anak dia)..

 *deme pun meneruskan cerita-ceriti anak, menantu, cucu, blablabla.. yg aku plak dah malas nak fokus, mula lah terbayang awal-awal jumpa si pengantin ni. Sah. Masa tu memang dia single. Cepatnyaaa ^^, *

Lepas besalam-salam dengan pengantin and rembat door gift, kami pun balik..

Miss S : Ha bu, betulla, masa tu dia single + available lagi.. Tak sangka eh. Hihi
Mami  : Itula.. kalau dah jodoh tu, skali jumpa terus tangkap leleh. Tak payah sibuk sibuk nak cari..
Miss S : Ehe *perli ke hape ni -.-"*

#Tapi orang-orang tua pesan jodoh kena carik. Konsepnya just like hidayahNya jugak. Nak ikut pesanan yg ni lah. Jom carik. HAHA

Takdek gambo peranten la pulak. Segan begambo ngan peranten. Deme cantik. Tenggelam kita dalam gambo nnt. Haha mengadamintakdilempang.

Kalau kata NO pun ape dapat? XD

Malam yg Spontan

Macam sambungan tapi tiada episod sebelum.. Haha

---- Lalu lagi sebelah rumah yg ditempek 'To Let/Sale' itu.. Tapi kali ini lain. Rumah tu macam dah ada pembeli. Dalam hati Suha mendengus 'Ceh. Dah ada orang beli. Tak aci betol' .. Ahha, rumah tu memang betul-betul menarik perhatian Suha. Walaupun buruk, tapi saiznya yg luas tu Suha suka. Kalau renovate, cat balik rumah ni, oke ape.. Tapi semuanya harapann..

Tadi, 11.15pm, lalu lagi.. Tapi si ibu terpandang satu rumah. Rumah tu sebelah je dengan rumah yg Suha suka. 

Ibu    : Haa ibu nak buat macam tu la.. ermm..

Suha  : Manamana?? Macam tu tu macam mana?

Ibu    : Hmm xpelah. Nanti ada duit, buat la macam mana pun..

Suha : Err.. xpelah bu. 2 taun lagi Su and kakak kan kerja.. Let us do it for you..

.... krik krik krikk....

Ibu    :  Tapi macam mana kalau orang ajak kau kawen? Nak ke?

Suha : Errr... *alahai.. aku x pernah ada jawapan untuk soalan macam ni...*

Ibu    : Eh jap. Ke dah ada orang ajak? Ha? Dah ada ke?

Suha : Eh.. err errmmm.. tu yang.. *ishh lagi mau tanya.. -.-"*

Ibu    : Sape? Si ruthnjdsb tu?

Suha : Ahha.. *blushing*

Suha menggelibak. Dalam hati dia tekesima sebab spontaneous sangat. Cepatcepat Suha keluar keta untuk bukak pagar rumah. Omggg~  She said that!! 

* menggelibak = menggelabah 

Dear Hijabster.

A beautiful Open Letter indeed. Please share this around!

Dear Hijabista, Hijabister

I am writing to express my concern over the portrayal of 'hijab' women in your magazine. I believe in the concept of modesty accompanying the muslimah attire (the hijab included) is a fundamental core one must embrace. The Hijab is not a replacement of the 'hair' we cover. The hijab isn't just a cloth or layers of cloth on your head. It comes with a package. Of intellect, manners and adab. It is a symbol of the believing women, her 'modesty'- A sign of dignity and pride. Your magazine bears no sign of 'modesty' and I say this clearly, this is definitely very WRONG!

Portraying hijab women and "doll-ing" them up like models in Vogue but then only to cover her hair is an absolute disgrace and mockery to us the believing women. What more the women and cover girls who allow themselves to be exploited as an object and fool themselves into thinking they are on their 'Deen' and pleasing Allah by just covering their hair... How can you even think you are pleasing Allah with all that make up, ridiculous styles whilst purposely showing off your beauty and body.

Your magazine just as the likes of vogue and cosmopolitan has NO intellectual nor spiritual dimensions to it except to brainwash and create an unnecessary desire to the 'hijabisters' to own more and more stuff. In reality, a real, true believing women DOES not need to display her adornments to entice others. The believing woman has self confidence that what is INSIDE her heart and MIND will indeed be of much more value than all the silly bangles, sunglasses, shoes and handbags you bombard the pages of your magazine with.

Your magazine corrupts young, sincere minds into foolishly thinking that 

they are more beautiful with more shoes, accessories or ridiculous tudung 

styles they do not need.

The best garments as the Quran states is Taqwa. And tell me where, in which page of your magazine do you propagate this message? None, not one I'm afraid. It is clearly a consumer driven magazine casting a spell with women, where one will then start to wish on owning and buying or to 'copy' the 'Photoshop-ed' girls you portray.

I am afraid you are only destroying the hijab sisters filling their minds with superficial beauty. Please take a sincere step back and help many lost sisters out there to care more about diseases of their hearts instead of merely emphasizing a message of "what is important is how you look and tie your tudung'

Sincerely,

A worried Muslimah

# Original from page FB We Are Beautiful, Allah loves Us.